Lessons from a near death experience

What I Learned From a Near Death Experience

Back in March, I had what I would call a near death experience.

I think I can call it a near death experience even though I didn’t hover over my own body, my heart didn’t stop, and there was no white light or anyone from the other side.

I actually remember almost none of it and am going on the stories that were relayed to me.  There was a life flight, a chest tube, and the card on the flowers that my daughter gave me that said, “Mom, thanks for not dying!” All this evidence points me to the conclusion that it was, indeed, a near death experience. Continue reading

What Not to Say to Graduating Seniors

What NOT to Say to Graduating Seniors

It’s that time!

High school seniors all over the country are relieved.  And rejoicing.  And celebrating. We will join in the merriment.  Then there will be those among us who will, without malice or awareness, put a damper on it. Simply with the words that come out of their mouths.

Everyone should think carefully before they speak.

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How NOT to Turn into a Curmudgeon (or how to be a cool old person)

Have you ever noticed that there are two types of old people?

There are cranky, bitter, sour old people. The Curmudgeons. These are the ones most people dread being around.

Then there is the interesting fun to be with old people that people look at and say “That’s how I want to be when I grow up”.  They are the cool old people. Continue reading

How to find yourself without leaving home!

How to Find Yourself – Without Leaving Home

I love a story with a soul searching quest.  A great example of this is Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert.  I am a fan of both the book and the author. For a similar story with a male perspective, there is Honeymoon With My Brother by Franz Wisner. Both books were on the New York Times best seller list. Apparently, I am not the only one who enjoys these types of stories.

If you’ve never read the books they are similar in the fact that something goes horribly awry in their life, and they leave on an extensive trip to go find themselves and discover life truths.  So many interesting details to mull over.  I read and reflect and then part of me gets pissed off!

Seriously, who does that? Continue reading